I wonder how dating back in the old days was. I bet it's not like it is now. I mean it's like people (mainly women. LOL!!) seem to have too many rules or very high expectations for a mate of their choosing. I mean let's be real, no one is 100% perfect. As long as who you with treats you like a king or queen then you should be able to look past some of their character flaws unless you're a blonde hair, blue eyed white girl who happens to love the hip-hop culture who's boyfriend is a redneck who is one beer away from joining the KKK. LOL!!!!! I can understand the notion of not settling for less but now that's getting out of hand. Most people seem to think a good mate is someone who has the money, cars, big house, and the glory. Trust me those things makes you desirable for all the wrong reasons. And it's nothing worse than getting involved with a gold-digger who ends up having your baby. *shakes heads* Well I guess I'll just keep traveling thru the wonderful world of dating...or safe, casual sex. LOL!!!